What to do if you have different sexual desires with your partner
One of the most frequent reasons for conflicts is having misfit in sexual desires. A sexologist explained how to solve this problem and to get an opportunity to live in agreement. Very often couples have some kinds of sexual problems. Usually it’s connected with a misfit in sexual desires.
For example one partner wants to have sex and the other doesn’t. But it’s not only about having a desire. Sometimes partner’s desires are of different type. Sexual desire can be spontaneous or caused by the actions of a partner. In the first case the desire to have sex comes automatically, without any reason or stimulation. It’s the same as with sport. Some people want to do sport from the early morning. Others start engaging in the process only after they start.
Very often in the couple partners have these two types of desires. And it may lead to conflicts. What to do? You should think what exactly excites your partner. It can be touching or beautiful lingerie. Sometimes you need ling hugs. For some people it’s important to have shower before sex or to send children to bed. If you are a couple but you get excited from absolutely different things, it’s a reason to go to psychologist. But usually people manage to find a compromise themselves. It’s important not to leave the situation as it is. Talk to your partner and try to find a compromise.